Thursday, September 30, 2010

why are these people like that?

Right now i'm in 8th grade and i have a few bestfriends and a few enemies.. I have 6 best friends that are girls and 2 best friends that are boys. They are the only people who i trust and who i don't hate..
Well, i have 2 best friends that are boys, but i'm only gonna talk about 1.
It was 3rd grade. Everyone made fun of me, but one guy didn't. And he was the only one who i could talk to without hearing an insult.. Then later i included him as my best friend. We would talk/test everyday. So he's been my best friend from the 3rd grade and still is now. But many many many many many people think that he's my boyfriend, but he's NOT!! Then someone approached me and asked me, are you guys together? That's when i found out about this "rumor"... So i got kinda pissed and i asked someone "why do people think me and him are together?" then their response is "because when a girl hangs out with a guy, it means they are together!"
I was so mad after hearing that... This rumor started from the 4th grade and is still going on today... Its been 4 years of this madness... And now my best friend doesn't really talk to me anymore... This rumor is destroying my friendship.. :(
LOOK EVERYONE, JUST BECAUSE GIRLS AND GUYS HANG OUT TOGETHER, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY ARE TOGETHER OR THEY LOVE EACH OTHER! I LOVE MY BEST FRIEND BUT AS A BROTHER!! SO DON'T SAY ANYTHING IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON... Sheesh...
What's wrong with these people here? Its like they never heard of friendship..

3 comments:

  1. aww i see what you mean. he probably stopped talking to you because he thinks that you tell people that you're together. and when they only see you as a friend, they can stop talking to you if they think you like them, because they don't feel that way, and see you differently.

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  2. :( i know...
    We barely even make eye contact... But we still talk. So im still happy with that... Hehe

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